Friday, May 1, 2009

David's surgery

After a little visit with us being allowed to hold his hand, say prayers, tell him how much we love him and how proud we are of his fighting efforts, David was taken into surgery by a huge team at about 7:30 this morning. The surgery started at 8AM and was over just before 9AM. He was back in his little corner of the NICU by 10 past 9.

The surgeon was pleased overall with the surgery. David did in fact have a tiny perforation in his intestines which was removed. His vital signs - notably his blood pressure - remained stable throughout. His neonatologist also seemed pleased. He will continue the antibiotic therapy previously in progress for a few more days to ensure proper protection. David's white blood cells have been elevated, but his blood cultures were always negative. Nonetheless he was started on antibiotics a few days ago - and now we know why his white cell count was elevated. The perforation was caught very early - prior to David showing any outward signs of getting sick so he has very good chances for a recovery from this problem.

It's always hard for us to make decisions like this - put all trust in a doctor (person) you've never met and don't know. We are pleased with the outcome so far but remain rattled from a sleepless night and extremely difficult morning.

Our sincere thanks to the nursing staff here at the hospital. Each area we've been in has been so gracious and accomadating. The Labor and Delivery nurses continue to follow our family progress. I see them in the halls sometimes and they always offer hugs, prayers and support. The NICU staff sat and talked to me this morning - some staying extra hours to see that everything went as smoothly as possible and when they had time, they came out of the surgical suite to give me updates on the progress in surgery. We just can't ask for anymore support from them or from our friends and family. We are truly lucky and blessed to have such warmth and support around us all the time.

As I sat next to David's isolette this morning holding his tiny hand, the feeling was overwhelming. Fear, focus, peace and anguish all at once. I remember looking at Brent last night and rather hysterically exclaiming, "WHY couldn't he just POOP!?" I suppose when you start asking why about some things, you may as well admit insanity. There are just no answers the the why's I have these days.

So, David is doing well, this morning has been successful. He will be kept quiet and comfortable for the rest of the day and weaning of meds and respirator will most likely continue tomorrow. We took some photos of the morning. I suppose it's a bit strange but I want so badly to take in every second I have with my babies - good or bad. Anyhow, I'll post them shortly.

Brent is poking fun at my ramblings - obviously, I needed a bit of journal therapy this morning. Mary Louise had a rather uneventful night and is resting quite well. All of her ventilator settings and oxygen have been reduced. She will have blood gases drawn once more at 10am and they plan to continue to wean her settings accordingly.

Many of the photos are dark because they keep the areas the babies are in darkened to avoid overstimulation and allow for rest.

Again - our thanks and love to all,

Heather

David's abdominal surgery day

8 comments:

  1. Oh thank God he made it through ok. I know his fight isn't over, but one more step toward being well is good. Heather and Brent I respect you both so much for how strong you are through all of this. It seems your babies inherited the strength, fight and determination you both have. God Bless and we will keep the prayers coming for both of you and your babies.

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  2. oh what a blessing! i am thrilled to see that david handled the surgery so well and i can imagine your releif.

    prayers for a peaceful recovery, for all of you!
    heather harper

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  3. oh, and i love the pictures! what a cutie he is! it is great that you are recording all of this in photos. all of these moments are precious.

    heather harper

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  4. Thank you for sharing so eloquently with words and pictures to ease our pensive thoughts. You both handle all these trials with such profound grace. Prayerful thoughts and love continue to poor from our hearts moment by moment. Mary Louise and David Oliver display the strength and depth of the blessing of life. Their tiny souls teach us tenacity.

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  5. Ugh, I am so proud of David! Can you imagine what a strong, tough guy he's gonna grow into? What great things God must have in store for babies whose very lives began as miracles!
    And Heather, you've always been a little crazy; it's one of your most redeeming qualities and one of my favorite things about you. And if loving and sticking up for babies b/c you want what's best for them makes someone 'crazy', then count me in- not just for my own but for yours as well! Love and continue to pray for David and Mary Louise. :)
    -McCall

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  6. He looks wonderful following surgery. He has a long road ahead but with you and Brent and your family and friends support it will be easier.

    Thank you for blogging. I've recommended your site to other nurses. We need to know what parents are thinking and feeling. The insight is wonderful. What great therapy for y'all. And, you are helping other families as well.

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  7. Thank you to the NICU RN for her comments. I wish more of the staff felt the same.

    I could not believe that gloving was not manditory in this unit, especially on such fragile babies!!!!!

    Kudos to Heather for standing her ground.

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  8. I was directed to your blog from the GCSAA forums. I wanted simply to offer encouragement from the community and wish those little babies great health. They have my families prayers backing them also.

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